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30 Principles

How To Win Friends and Influence People (English Edition)

How To Win Friends and Influence People (English Edition)

“I have also eliminated criticism from my system. I give appreciation and praise now instead of condemnation. I have stopped talking about what I want. I am now trying to see the other person’s viewpoint.

30 Principles for How To Win Friends and Influence People

That is why dogs make such a hit. They are so glad to see us that they almost jump out of their skins. So, naturally, we are glad to see them.

正解主義を前提とすれば、正解でないものは批評されておかしくないのかもしれない。このあたりの感覚を学校教育から変えなければならないのであれば、この本に書かれていることは至極あたりまえのこととも思える。